Like I wrote on the other post, I only told some people about my diagnosis. However, everyone (at least it felt like everyone) heard about the cancer after my surgery. And of course, people started flooding me with questions and advice. Before you say anything to cancer patient, please bear in mind, we, cancer patient, has had emotional and physical challenge. There are things we don’t expect to hear from people, and here are the list of what people said to me in real life: 1. "I know someone with cancer and they died" Yeah, I know, finding something in common is a way to relate in a conversation, but that is so rude and insensitive. 2. "You should try alternative therapy” Someone told me about his family member who lost the battle to cancer. He also told me that after being treated and series of chemotherapy, the patient's condition got worse and finally passed away. He said he didn’t believe in medical treatment and suggested me to have alternative ...